It Takes As Long As It Takes

It Takes As Long As It Takes

From up here, on the crest of the hill, the valley unfolds. It’s dotted with vineyards, roaming cows, charming restaurants and jaunty hills. On a clear day I can see acres of blue sky and on a not-so-clear day it’s good too, the coastal fog rolling in and extending its puffy, dark grasp into the … Continue reading

Walking the Labyrinth

Walking the Labyrinth

It’s true what they say: Some things are hidden in plain sight. Although I’ve walked the Kortum Trail at least a dozen times, I’ve never noticed the labyrinth before. My guess is that it’s less than 100 feet from the trail, but if you don’t know it’s there, you’ll probably miss it. This time, I’m so … Continue reading

Women’s Circles: Creating and Savoring

Women’s Circles: Creating and Savoring

I’m in the midst of an experiment this month. I can’t say too much about it since it’s still early days into it. But I can tell you this: I’m playing around with a new tele-circle format for the Women’s Creative Wisdom Circles that makes them accessible to women everywhere, not just in Northern California. If … Continue reading

Forgive. Or not.

Forgive. Or not.

Forgiveness is very personal. Often a life-long journey. But not an absolute requirement for a whole and happy existence. Everyone applies their own personal meaning to it. What might be forgiveness for one person wouldn’t seem so for another. And that’s okay. There’s no right way to do forgiveness. I think there’s an in-between spot too. Between … Continue reading

Wild Woman Wisdom

Wild Woman Wisdom

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Truth: It’s time to break the rules

Truth: It’s time to break the rules

Truth: I can be really good at following the rules. When I was little I couldn’t wait to get up on weekend mornings and rush over to the small park across the street from my suburban home. But my mom had a strict rule about not crossing that street by myself. So she’d take my … Continue reading

Your Stories Are Transcendent

Your Stories Are Transcendent

Your stories are all of it: comedy, drama, tragedy, memoir. Your stories are more than just a literal recitation of facts and details. Your stories are full feelings, yearnings, curiosities, certainties, uncertainties. Your stories are replete with images, metaphors, symbols. Your stories are populated with fascinating characters. Your stories take you to remarkable places, even … Continue reading

It really is all here, right now

It really is all here, right now

I celebrated my birthday a few days ago and woke up to this photo, texted to me by my husband (who was in the kitchen making breakfast)…     Dave had staged it the day before and apparently Max willingly went along. I’m still laughing. That’s always a good way to start a birthday, especially … Continue reading